My father says he rejected the guy I loved because he was from a different culture and lower status. He says eventhough hadees and Quran says to only look at the DEEN and BEHAVIOUR of the groom, Allah has given human beings a brain and intelligence using which he has to make a decision (According to my father’s past experiences he does not like people from that boy’s city/culture and also feels money is a must) . So he says he will use his brain and reject the groom. Is it right even though it contradicts hadees on marriage? Does hadees not complement the modern world and it’s requirements for a good life?