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Samiya Ibrahim asked 2 years ago

Aselam Alekum, I am a 30 years old female. About a year ago, I met a Muslim guy on a Muslim dating site. I live in US and he lives in dubai. We got along really well and after few months of talking he told me that he was married but he was forced in to the marriage by his family. At that time I was so angry but I stayed with him because he has a good personality and I already introduced him to my family. I went to see him last December and I started a finace visa for him to come here. About two months ago he brought his wife to dubai to be with him for few months, and I found out that she is pregnant but had a miscarriage. I am working hard here to save money and give him a good life when he comes to US. I got so angry by that and I told him I want a divorce. Btw I am Muslim but my mom is christian. My dad is Muslim but died 4 years ago. I don’t have anybody to teach me about nikah and the process and rules. I thought of the American way or other Christian country way, you can get a divorce but can get back anytime if you want to. So he divorced me but after I cool down I started regretting my decision. We agreed again to be together but he told me i need to marry another person and divorce the person before I can marry him again. And my sister told me if i marry someone else and the intention is to re-marry my old husband, it is not going to work. I don’t know any male person who is willing to do this. I am stuck in a situation I can’t get out of, please help me find another way and leaving my old husband is not an option for me. Jazakelah