I ask as someone close to me has difficulty in performing wudu in the first place due to disabilities (neurological and physical) and when he does finish wudu he has immense difficulty in maintaining it. Primarily the problem is passing of wind but also urine dripping. On average wudu takes him 20 minutes to complete. For this reason he has stopped praying & is in great distress about this.
Is there anything you can suggest for him ?