I’ve just had a baby and have a 17 month old. My hubbys father got ill and since then he has took over the house financially and physically. They ring him and he goes an sits there for hours even though we have not seen him all day. When weekend comes hes running around after them baring in mind the he’s got 2 brothers and 2 sisters who can do things for themselves,but because he’s the oldest he does it. I’ve had enough he doesn’t help me with the kids and barley sees us. I feel neglected and when I say somthing it just ends in arguements .