Marriage advice

Marriage adviceCategory: OtherMarriage advice
Afnan asked 6 years ago

There\’s a man that has asked for my hand in marriage. Our families are very happy and In shaa a\’Allah the nikkah is next week Monday. However, I am very nervous. I have seen really bad signs, e.g. Him talking to different girls, him going out and doing bad things etc and I have prayed. I\’m really confused about this and I don\’t want to do this if it\’s not good for me. The only problem is that I don\’t want to tell my grandma as she will be really upset knowing I feel like this and since everything is already paid for. I\’ve mentioned to his mother before that if her son does anything wrong then I will have to leave him. She has then said if I do so she will severe all ties with him. I\’m really confused as to what to do. I really need some advice.