- There is this haddeth that I cam through that if you don’t want to grt marries you should fast. Is this for both men and women? Secondly, the hadeeths where its says that when the husband asks her wife to accompany him on the bed she shouldn’t reject. If she does there will be curse on her. I didnt understand this hadeeth throughly like what if the wife isnt feeling good or for any reason she doesnt want to isnt its forced. Lastly, from all the hadeeths I read about nikah and marriage and it seems like in marriage comes with huge responsibilities. What if a women doesnt want to get married.