I am writing to you in regards with some advice and some questions in relation to the topic of marriage.
I would lie to ask is it a sin for a girl to choose a partner for herself?
I have told my mother that I like someone for their level character and deen and she tells me that if I choose a partner other people will not come for my younger sisters rights in the future. The other thing is that if the holy prophet wrote ahadith saying:
“when one with whose religion and character you are satisfied asks your daughter in marriage then accede to his request. If you do not do so then there will be temptation in the earth and extensive corruption”. (Tirmidhi)
So my question is that did the holy prophet Muhammad pbuh not think of culture, family judging, ethics, culture etc. Before this saying.
If I choose a partner for myself with the remain of chastity and tell my parent is that a love marriagenornarrange marriage or a bit of both.
Lastly I would like to ask if there are any quranic verses or Sudan’s that I can read for the mercy, guidance, ease and help in this situtation.I