Husband doesn't want to reconcile with my Dad

Husband doesn't want to reconcile with my DadCategory: OtherHusband doesn't want to reconcile with my Dad
Anonymous asked 7 years ago

I have been married for 17 years and have 3 children. 1 1/2 years ago my husband and my dad had a big argument including my father in law. My husband said some rude things to my dad infront of my whole family which made my dad very angry. The situation got out of hand and my dad told my husband to get out of his house. After a while my dad and father in law reconciled but my husband is till holding a grudge and what’s to have nothing to do with my family. 
Over the past years I have tried very hard to explain to him that he needs to reconcile with my dad. Each Eid I hope that he’ll make up with him. At Ramadan I wanted to invite them but my husband said that if they come over I’ll leave.
I don’t have an issue with his family neither do my parents and I don’t understand why he has an issue with mine. Everyone has moved on including my parents but he hasn’t.
We always argue and he sometimes threatens me with divorce when I bring up the matter. He doesn’t understand that he needs to move for the good of his children and family. Since the last Eid we always argue. I pray all the time that the situation will get better. I feel so alone and that the situation won’t be resolved.
it has been 2 years since my dad entered my house and he only lived five minutes away. I tell him that as a Muslim he needs to forgive and forget but he doesn’t listen. I spoke to his family to try and talk to him and convince him to move on.
I don’t know what to do. I have no hope left for the matter. He really doesn’t want to resolve the issue and sometimes he gets really angry when I try to talk to him about it.
Please can you help me and give me some advice on what to do because at the moment there are are a lot of arguments between us. I feel like 1 1/2 years is enough and there has to be a limit. I believe if you can’t forgive your not a true muslim.
Thank you. I will be waiting for a response