Family problem.

Family problem.Category: OtherFamily problem.
Afroza Nasrin asked 4 years ago

Salaam brother,
My father had died long time ago.
I take care my family. I do take care my mom. But problem is that, I have a nephew, my mom loves him a lot . But he is not a good guy. He spends lot of money for no reason. Recently he got married, pls note that he is 22 years old. He doesn’t work. He doesn’t like to earn money but love to spend.
My mom wants I will pay his expenditure.
I like to help poor people as much as I can. My mom wants instead of them I should help him . But I don’t want it.
What should I do in this situation?
Pls note that, I am a female and I have 2 girls.
Pls pls pls let me know accoding to Quran and Sunnah.
Jajakallah Khair.