OVERSIMPLIFIED TO MAKE THE POINT ….
I ask my wife if she would be so kind as to pass the sugar !!
She spits in my face !!
I tell her that I’m not allowed to slap her, so I ask her what else we should do !!
She recommends that we talk !!
I demonstrate respect for her concerns but, every time it comes to my turn to speak about MY feelings, she spits in my face !!
What is a good Muslim man to do next !?
