Childhood Sexual Abuse and Confusion. Hello, I want to get help from fellow Muslims. I was sexually abused when I was a child by my cousin (who was 15 at the time). Thankfully I saw the sexual abuse from school and stopped him. Now I\’m a 25 year old man, I feel confused when researching. I found that sexually abused people can become sexually disoriented. At times, I feel attracted to men and sometimes to women. I dont know what to do.